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Why do people always believe I'm gay?

Hey everyone. 

I'm a 22-year-old guy and my problem is that, many times, others (including friends and family members) assume I'm gay. 

For example, last night we were hanging out with friends, playing question games, and when smn asked "who among us would sleep with a guy?", they said me. This has happened before. Also, a few weeks ago, there was this girl I was trying to hit on and she rebuffed me, because she thought the same thing. This is probably why I have no luck with girls.

I guess it's because I'm not a "typical" man of my age. I don't really care about sports or cars, I have other interests, like movies, books, learning foreign languages. Plus I'm short and my voice ain't very deep.

But this situation has been going on for several years and it's been really difficult for me,  making me question my sexuality (even though I've never done anything with another man), and even causing me anxiety and depression. 

Thanx for ur replies.

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  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

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    read Book of Revelation; Chapters 13 and 14, please

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  • T J
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Come on over to the other side, you will be welcome, even if its just to see if you are gay or  not, we all understand that.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    It's only who you are attracted to that determines your sexuality, not other people's opinions. You don't have to have actually had sex to be gay or straight. If you have no interest in men or women, you may be asexual. It's likely that some of your friends are only wishing you were gay.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    There are straight men with effeminate mannerisms just as there are gay men who are very masculine and butch. Think for your self. Never tolerate bullying. 

    Is it that you have never been with women at all and you want to be or that it is just that you are not with them often? This also feeds into the prejudices you are experiencing. If you need help finding women then get it. Get on some of those match sites, get a counselor - do what you have to do. 

    Find your niche of women. And go for women in your league. If you are 7 don’t expect to go for 10’s. It could happen but let’s be real. There are too many women that complain that they don’t have men for everyone to believe they are all taken. Put your self out there. Volunteer for things that interest and join some clubs. You’ll women in to what you are in to. And remember that every no you get is one step closer to your yes. And you’ll start to get more yes’s. You don’t have to make a life partner out of your first yes. 

    If it is that you never been with a woman and your confidence is way down - maybe go somewhere where it is legal and hire a prostitute that is not a human trafficking victim. 

    Why would you be questioning your sexuality? If it is because of the bullying then that is just nothing to pay attention to. But if it is because you honestly want to try it with guys then do it. I had to move to a gay friendly area to come to terms with myself. That was a long time ago - but if you have to do the same thing then do it. 

    And if you have friends that are going to bully you - maybe they are not your friends. Maybe you are better off with out them. Or maybe you need to correct them right away and let them know not to take you for granted.

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  • 1 month ago

    From your description you aren't gay. You're an "incel" (involuntary celibate).

    Parents will often assume that their son is gay if he can't get a girlfriend. This is because the mother can't imagine any girl not liking their son.

    Your friends probably are influenced by the stereotype that gay guys are effeminate or at least less masculine than straight men. Unfortunately the fact that you haven't succeeded with girls reinforces this belief that you're gay, which in turn reduces your chances of getting a girlfriend.

    These days many people regard "incel' guys as being far worse than gay guys. Only very conservative types regard being gay as being worse than being an "incel".

    It may be an idea to try and find new friends who haven't heard the rumours that you're gay. This can be more difficult once you're an adult.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Just because you act a certain way, it doesn't mean you're gay; even though society may try to force you to feel that way. Just ignore what people say & assure them that you're not gay.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 month ago

    doh....movies? books? languages? I'm pretty sure you probably are gay.

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