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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 month ago

Why do many women think that their husbands money is there's to spend frivolously?

For example, my brother and his wife and getting a divorced because he works as a doctor and she is unemployed and is a stay at home mom with a joint bank account that she had access to from him, and she was taking all of his money and spending it on fancy dresses, a new Tesla, expensive $100+ lunches on a daily basis, would buy her and her husband tickets for expensive trips that he never even was told prior about, she would just book trips without telling him, etc etc.

Update:

You never hear these stories about stay at home dads who spend all their working wife's money, it's always women spending their husbands money

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    In 1923 priests tried to change the calendar; Holy Fire didn't come down; Turkish guards killed these priests; Ruski Orthodox replaced them.

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    Orthodoxy = the only true faith; Roman Catholics tried one cup - one spoon ritual and got sick with Bubonic plague; if heresy enters Orthodox monastery then monks/nuns will get sick with flu/tuberculosis (for instance); Orthodox churches who closed for COVID or had disposable cups/spoons or dipped spoon into alcohol are no longer brides of Christ (now they serve Satan and honor Satan's new COVID religion).

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Similar reason to why some men willingly marry women who have no intention of working and pulling their own weight. Your brother married someone frivolous. That is why she spends their joint assets frivolously. 

  • 1 month ago

    You just don't understand a marriage.  It isn't HIS money. When married it is THEIR money. Each is entitled to a share of luxuries.  Many men are happy to spend money on beer, or new golf clubs or a flash car but resent their wife buying furniture or clothes.

  • 1 month ago

    If your brother married a gold digger that has nothing to do with "many women" or any other woman besides his wife

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  • 1 month ago

    Because no man can keep up with a woman's spending.

    His heart is generous. The more he gives, the happier and manlier he feels.Her heart is greedy. The more buying power a woman has, the more she has to work on her soul. A husband can barely recall what was bought yesterday.But if a wife spends her money to buy new tires for his car, she'll remind him about it 10 year later.

  • 1 month ago

    You know of this specific instance in your family, unfortunately. However, this does not apply across the board to "many women" , as you have suggested.  In this one, I can't say what her motives might have been, although its possible that she's a gold digger, selfish, oblivious about the monetary values involved, feeling angry and using spending as a form of revenge, or any other possibility, as well. 

  • edward
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    My wife does that sometimes.  Except we have our own accounts too.  If she wants to continue to spend money she has to remember that i don’t have to put money into that account and if she ends up stranded at a restaurant it’s not my problem but i love her and wouldn’t do that to her.  I don’t mind her spending money, you have a dumb brother

  • i + i
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    For some, it is just the fact that they 

    never grew up -- daddy provided for 

    everything and they never had to 

    worry about finances. For others 

    it is a disease, where they try to 

    find some kind of satisfaction by 

    buying things ("shopping therapy"). 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    No idea. I  have a rich husband but would love him with or without money. I would never spend his hard earned money! As his wife and the mother of his kids,  he supports me financially for things I need and on holidays he buys us gifts and stuff, but I never take his money without making sure hes ok with it. I have a job as well and although it does not pay a lot, I still help out with stuff. Thats so wrong that she would splurge his money without even telling him! Some women think that in a relationship they are entitled to their husbands money 

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