Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 month ago

Why are there guys that are clueless and gameless interacting with girls?

Why does a guy not know how to make a move even when a girl makes it obvious that she likes him?

4 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Because the sexes are different, and it takes guys a while to figure out how girls are different from boys. 

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    In my (plentiful) experience

    girls are NEVER obvious.

    Yeah, I'm by nature ignorant in that regard, lacking in that "skill".

    I just don't pick up on so-called hints and clues...

    at least, not ***until several years later*** (true story, several times repeated).

    Here's obvious:

    - "Hey, I'm interested in you romantically."


    - "Hey, why haven't you ever asked me out?"

    Anything less than that

    is NOT obvious to me

    and I *am* going to miss it


    by no means am I the only guy to suffer from this same particular form of block-headedness.

    I'd guess that about half the guys I've known suffer from the same "condition".

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    We get nervous sometimes. It's normal. Stay single if you don't want to deal with it.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Insecurity. Fear of rejection. Have a bit of empathy. Why don’t you help a few of them. Do something heroic instead of plssing around on here.

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