In gay sex the bottom should orgasm first? ?

Soo I been thinking about this.

And the thing of straight sex that the women should orgasm first and stuff like that. 

So does that apply to gay sex, saying that bottoms should orgasm first and then the top? 

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  • HMFan
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    There are no set rules about who “should” orgasm first. That depends on SO many things: the people, the situation, the room temperature... Instead of trying to identify a codified process for what is right and what is wrong, find out what works for YOU personally. You might find that changes from partner to partner: perhaps you like to orgasm BEFORE Partner A, but prefer to orgasm WITH Partner B. That’s up to YOU. Find out what YOU like.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Ther is no such thing as "gay sex"!

  • 1 month ago

    I wouldn’t say this is a hard and fast rule. First of all it has nothing to do with the preconceived ideas about straight sex. The reason that usually the bottom should orgasm first in mlm sex is because once the top has orgasmed, they’re done and cannot continue to penetrate the bottom as they have already orgasmed and it could be painfully oversensitive. The top can continue even after the bottom orgasms because the bottom is not receiving direct genital stimulation and so it will not hurt them

  • Sky
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Apparently you don't realize that heterosexual people enjoy anal sex, too.  Anyway, ideally the two people would orgasm at the same time, but in the absence of that, yes, at the very least the bottom should orgasm first since the top wouldn't be able to do much more after he orgasms.  If the top orgasms first, he should do what he can to help the receiver also reach a very satisfying orgasm.

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Porn videos are not good instruction. The bottom may or may not climax with the top. But when he eventually does - it will be a very good one because of all the prostate stimulation he’s received. Our thrill during the fvck is to have the top get off and enjoy us. We enjoy him probing us, wanting us and enjoying us. But as for bath house - they are great - but no glove - no love.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Yes. Unless he's going to suck you off after he comes. It would be nice to finish first.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Total Bottoms often don't even like to orgasm -- they just love to have penis after beautiful penis ejaculating inside them.

    This is common at gay bathhouses where bottoms take hundreds of men over a weekend and never climax themselves.  

  • 1 month ago

    There is no required order. If the bottoms finishes first, let the top finish.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 month ago

    The only reason for a man to make sure that the woman orgasms first is because the man usually loses their erection after and becomes less useful.

  • Cogito
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    You sound incredibly naive and totally inexperienced!

    There's no 'should orgasm first' at all.  There are no rules and you can't decide such things.  It happens if and when it happens.  And that applies to everyone!

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