Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 1 month ago

Why do marriages fail nowadays ?

Are Men or women usually the problem? What’s your opinion?. 

31 Answers

  • 1 month ago
    Favourite answer

    Marriage is an OUTDATED and grossly OVER-rated sure-fire path to MISERY.  It has NO purpose in modern times.  All these whores want the big dress and the big expensive wedding and divorce within the first year.  WHY BOTHER?  

    Armouror - I have heard this story too many times.  These whores marry military guys and soon as they are deployed they're off sucking every dick in town.  It's a disgrace.  I often wondered WHY military guys even bother to get married.  That baby they come home to, 99.999% of the time, isn't even theirs!  

  • 4 weeks ago

    Allison  , so does that make your mother a whore too ?

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Married Twice Both were sleeping around whilst i was serving in the military and the second one i was only away for 3 weeks

    Marry or trust a woman only after a lobotomy

  • 1 month ago

    I have no idea.

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Women file for divorce more than men.   Can’t really blame them though since divorce laws are biased towards females.    

  • garry
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    same as 40 years ago , womens liberation .

  • 1 month ago

    Yes, men and women are the problem. 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Because as soon as the marriage takes place the woman stops caring about being attractive to her husband and turns into a fat complaining cow.

  • 1 month ago

    Marriages have always failed, however in the past, often it was virtually impossible for women to get a divorce.  Nowadays though, many marriages fail because the couple, failed to get to know each other properly before jumping into the long term commitment that marriage is.  There are other reasons why marriages fail, too many to list.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Failed marriages have nothing to do with the person's gender. A personality disorder is a type of mental disorder in which you have a rigid and unhealthy pattern of thinking, functioning and behaving. A person with a personality disorder has trouble perceiving and relating to situations and people. This causes significant problems and limitations in relationships, marriages, friendships and families. 

    Personality disorders affect how someone thinks, perceives, feels and relates to others. Cluster B personality disorders are the reason why marriages fail and result in divorce. Cluster B personality disorders are  characterized by dramatic, overly emotional and unpredictable behavior and thinking. Cluster B include Antisocial Personality Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, and Narcissistic Personality Disorder. 

    The people with antisocial, borderline and narcissistic personality disorders are abusive people. Both genders can be abusive and can cause severe damage to their relationships, marriages, family members, friends and everyone whom they associate with. 

    Being with someone with an abusive personality is a miserable and damaging experience. The person with an abusive personality often engages in verbal and emotional abuse as well as domestic violence. Below are the types of personality disorders that are abusive: 

    Antisocial Personality Disorder

    1) Disregard for other people’s needs and feelings.

    2) Exploit, manipulate or violate the rights of other people. 

    3) Lack of concern, regret and remorse about other people's distress. They have a reckless disregard for their safety and the safety of other people. 

    4) Behave irresponsibly and show disregard for normal social behavior. 

    5) Irritable and aggressive.

    6) Disregard for the safety of self or others.7) Impulsive behavior.

    8) Blame other people for the problems in their lives. 

    9) Lack guilt, and never learn from their mistakes. 

    10) Lack of empathy.

    Borderline Personality Disorder

    1) Impulsive and risky behavior, such as gambling or binge eating. 

    2) Unstable or fragile self-image.

    3) Unstable and intense relationships, marriages and friendships.

    4) Up and down moods, often as a reaction to interpersonal stress. 

    5) Suicidal behavior and threats of self-injury. 

    6) Intense fear of being alone or abandoned. 

    7) Ongoing feelings of emptiness.

    8) Frequent, intense displays of anger.

    9) Stress-related paranoia that comes and goes. 

    10) Poor empathy.  

    Narcissistic Personality Disorder

    1) Belief that they’re special and more important than others.

    2) Fantasies about power, success and attractiveness.

    3) Failure to recognize others' needs and feelings.

    4) Exaggeration of achievements or talents.

    5) Expectation of constant praise and admiration.

    6) Arrogance.

    7) Unreasonable expectations of favors and advantages, often taking advantage of others.

    8) Envious of other people and believe that other people are envious of them. 

    9) A lack of empathy and consideration for other people.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    It only fails with millennials. They don’t want responsibility and want to have fun. And the women seem to be very career oriented which is why many don’t get married. And guys, well, guys will always be guys.

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