Anonymous asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 month ago

Were my sisters and I groomed at a young age?

I'm ignoring all troll comments because some of y'all are nasty as hell. Anyway when we were young our dad would watch porn in front of all of us and vividly describe what he and my mom would do in bed as well as show us nude photos my mom sent him over text. My sister and I had a conversation about it a month ago and we don't know whether or not to call it grooming because he hated us. We were never touched or raped so we don't know if he was grooming us for someone else or himself. 


To the first commenter: Yes he knew we were there and he made us feel uncomfortable.

3 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    I think grooming means done with intent to prepare the person psychologically for sex. 

    So it wasn't grooming. It was just inappropriate behaviour. 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    It seems he was a very sick man.

    Grooming,I doubt it.

    It's just for kicks.

  • 1 month ago

    Did it make you feel uncomfortable in anyway?

    And did he know you kids were there or was this a walking in in him moment?

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