Anonymous asked in Social SciencePsychology · 4 weeks ago

My life is not worth living...?

I'm a 27 years old woman and still single. Most of my friends are married with kids. My cousin had her first child last week and she is 28. I'm alone

8 Answers

  • .....
    Lv 5
    3 days ago

    Finding someone perfect is not going to happen. Marry the man you like, enjoy enough to know that you two can build a family together. Get on with life, - waste no more time hoping, just go do it. !  :)

  • 3 weeks ago

    Certain things cannot be attained by all. You must try to find happiness in the life what you have got now. If you don't have a family, doesn't matter, you can choose your friend's or someone's family and yours and their children as yours and find happiness. Your love towards them will make them love you more. You should not give room to hatred in your mind. Hatred is a spirit. People possessed by this spirit always hate even without a reason. You don't allow this spirit at any circumstances.

    Human beings are ruled by spirits but humans must learn to control and rule the spirits. Spirits possess people according to the mental state of the human beings and keep them in the same state until they are rejected and replaced by another. This is an all time phenomena occurring in all humans. Human beings are always under the influence of spirits. Certain situations and circumstances cause the possession of certain type of spirits. Often thinking and talking about bad subjects or bad imaginations even for fun can take serious turns on one who think and talk. Often thinking and talking about good subjects with good imaginations can create positive effects in your life. Your favorable thoughts and beliefs can bring favorable spirits by your side. The more you think the more would be the possession of that spirit. All spirits (good and bad) have the dominating character. They can take you to the extent of sacrifice or suicide.

    All of your activities, talks and even thoughts determine what kind of spirits you will have for your life. Only these spirits are the reason for the good and bad happening in your life. These spirits determine your destiny from your daily activities, talks and thoughts too. Spirits are separate elements. A human being doesn't have a spiritual body. A human being during his/her life time is living with many spirits which have joined one by one since birth. They are knowledge, skills, feelings, emotions, interests and everything. These spirits are your consciousnesses and memories. Even thoughts are not your own. For example, when you want to take a decision on a subject, one after another the spirits think and you just listen, choose or reject the ideas which they transmit to your mind through your brain in the form of thoughts. Brain is just a media to connect the spirits to your mind. A mind is just a computer's mind. After the destruction of a computer completely you will not get it's mind. The same is the case with the human beings. Soul is nothing but an energy needed for the functionality of a body. It is not a spirit or anything else. A body's functionality is based on the auto mechanism.  After death all spirits which accompanied a person quit and go to different places searching new bodies. No one lives after death in any form and there is no afterlife. All human beings are just robots made of flesh and bones and toys of the spirits for their games.

    You must not leave your mind in it's own way. If you do, the spirit will take your mind for it's own, then controlling it is not so easy. First of all you must think and believe that it's not you. Then you must command that spirit both mentally and orally to go. Whenever you are possessed by that thought you must divert your mind at once towards some other subject and stay in it for a while and then continue your duty. This is a mental exercise. You may also bring at once an opposite feeling through your imagination. For example if the depression is about your future then you may think, imagine and believe that you are going to live a healthy, wealthy and happy life in future. You must continue this exercise for few days. While doing this exercise you are creating an opposing spirit, i.e., a positive force. Soon this new spirit gets stronger and eliminates the negative force. Within a few days you will be alright.

  • falcon
    Lv 5
    3 weeks ago

    If you are aware that your life is not worth living than fix it work on yourself talk to a professional and understand what is wrong with you 

  • Lili
    Lv 7
    3 weeks ago

    I know plenty of people who didn't marry until their 30s, even some who didn't marry until their 40s.

    And I might point out that a lot of single women choose to have children.

    You are still very young, but anyone who genuinely thinks her life isn't worth living because she's only 27 and single needs to see a therapist.

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  • 3 weeks ago

    perhaps time you raise your expectations from life and stop having such low ambition. there is much more to life than having children and being married. go on some epic adventures which your mommie friends simply cant do with their babies in tow. do stuff that would make the average bored soccer moms envy your freedoms...

  • 4 weeks ago

    Cry baby pissy pants.

  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

    there's still time yet, 27 is still young.

  • Jesere
    Lv 7
    4 weeks ago

    Get off your pity pot 

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