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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 month ago

Should I believe this girl that my husbands cheating, he denies it?

One of my old friends messaged me and said my husband was cheating on me. She sent me a screenshot where he said he only wanted to talk on Snapchat so the messages would clear. He admits he sent that but then defends that he said in the message they were friends and nothing else, but she goes on to say “don’t worry I’m not sending her the messages” and he doesn’t say anything back to that so it has me suspicious. She’s telling me he was trying to sleep with her and talked about trying new positions with her. She tells me she has no reason to lie to me she’s been married for four years and only responded because she was wondering if something was going on after he tried to make contact with her several times. Please help?

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  • Anonymous
    4 weeks ago

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  • 1 month ago

    Doubt has been cast.

    He admits no wrong doing.

    Stop communicating with the old friend.

    Keep your eyes and ears OPEN because if he is a cheater, he IS a cheater and will do it again.

    Don't act on rumors.

  • 1 month ago

    Rumors, not rumor? A general rule of thumb is not ignoring smoke. Often when there is smoke, you will find fire. It’s not always easy to find but something is creating the smoke. If several people are saying things, you need to not blindly ignore such information. That will make you stupid! It’s always better to be wrong than stupid. Most people don’t share such information casually with the victim of a cheater. 

    But do not panic and rush to conclusion, if you want to have a real discussion with him about it then i suggest you follow these guidelines in this article; Better Sexual Intimacy: 10 Questions To Ask To Go Deep In Your Relationship - teachazinc.blogspot.com/2020/10/deep-intimacy.html

    Good luck....hopefully you work it out!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Its non of her business to come and tell you. Options are:

    She wanted to sleep with him and he was just playing it jokingly with no intention to cheat on u.

    He wanted to sleep with her and he is actually playing on your back.

    They both are actually sleeping together then he decided to leave her becz he wasnt happy cheating on u so she decided to destroy his life.

    As a woman, u will find alot of difficulty to let go. She wanted to mess with ur head and she achieved it.

    My advice, ignore it...trust the husband u know and not the woman u dont know. If u can not do that, then have a conversation with ur husband that u ll forgive him if he told u the truth..then actually forgive him..and if he was faulted and cant forgive him, take a break and revise ur relationship.

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  • 1 month ago

    I wouldn't believe anything a woman says.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Try to not be naive.

  • David
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    I worked in an office with open cubicles.  I had a very loud-mouthed co-worker who had a history of putting his foot in his mouth.  One day, I happened to catch a momentary glimpse of our big boss headed our way.  But nobody else knew the boss was coming.  

    So I announced really loudly, "Oh c'mon Frank (my co-worker)...don't you think it's a bit harsh to call Phil a total ******* MORON????"  Just as I finished saying that, Phil walks into our office area, GLARING at Frank...

    And our other two co-workers were literally dying, they were laughing so hard...

    Why am I telling you this story?  Because you are Phil, dear.  

    An old friend of yours tells you your husband is cheating, with no proof.  Yeah, there are some text messages that may or may not be incriminating...or rather they might LOOK incriminating.  But that doesn't prove a thing.  So it boils down to her word against his.  In that case, the tie goes to your spouse.

    Put another way...if you are going to take the word of "your old friend", then you really should have married the old friend...

    But as you married your husband, then there is only one way to play this.  Without definitive proof, your husband gets the benefit of DOUBT.  Any other course of action would be terribly unfair to your husband...

  • Piero
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Be loyal. Trust the one you love and the one that loves you. Your "friend" isn't a friend at all, but a cheap gossip. No matter HOW compelling her evidence is, it's still third party gossip. Go with trust and loyalty. If you can't, your  relationship is doomed.

  • 1 month ago

    I would believe your girlfriend as your husband admitted to the message. 

  • 1 month ago

    Well, the truth is, even if the husband of someone i know tried to get me to have sex with him, i wouldn't rush out and tell his wife. First of all, I'm not 12.  And  I don't know what telling his wife would accomplish, except to upset his wife.  I figure men like this get caught sooner or later, and i don't have to go tattle-tale to someone's wife.  

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