how do you know what women are in your league?

How do I know who I can talk to and try to get to know?

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  • 3 months ago
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    "In your league" generally refers to their social status and income level.  Consider who they hang out with -- guys from the country club or guys on the beach?  Football players or off-road mudders?  It all depends on what they enjoy doing and how they were raised.  If they are social snobs, they like expensive things and dress in clothes that would never survive a camping trip.  They aren't interested in the outdoors and would rather be drinking champagne in an art gallery while they critique the dreses of other patrons.  You can usually tell by observing them from afar.  How are they dressed?  Are they all painted up in mascara and bright lipstick?  Or do they wear jeans and go for a natural look?  Are they hanging around the stable and riding the horses, or are they standing afar off like they don't want to get their clothes dirty and they smell something bad?  

    So what is the league you are in?  Find a girl who likes to do the things you like to do.  They are relaxed and comfortable around people you hang around with.  But don't expect one to go out with you the first time you talk to them.  You need to become friends by doing things together that are not sex oriented before you ever get to that stage.  Show her you can protect her as well as be interesting without it being focused on sex.  

  • 3 months ago

    18 to 80 ariba.....ariba  undela

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    Firstly you get rid of that restrictive idea. You are as good as the next man and lots of smart attractive women go for losers. So you are in with a chance.

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