When a woman treat you like crap, why is it always because you “let” her?

So many times, “haha he stole your girl” or seen guys with violent girlfriends get called simps. Any scenario where a woman exhibits toxic or manipulative behaviour to you, you’re a fool for allowing it to happen rather than looking at it as her wrongdoing. 

Yet a hint of men mistreating his woman, people never shut up about it. People rarely adopt the same attitude when it’s females complaining about males. “Men are pigs, it’s not your fault” but other way round, “you clearly go for the wrong girls”. 

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    It's the same when a man mistreats a woman. All her (sane) friends would ask why she "let" him do that instead of getting out of the relationship. Both genders have the same responsibility to stand up for themselves and to leave when things get gross in a relationship.

  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    i dont think its always like that

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