What do I do if my aunt pulls me aside and rages at me for visiting my grandmother at a time I am in the way for my aunt's schedule?
She did this a few years ago and I have been scared of her ever since. My parents told me just to avoid her so I have and only had to see the bully once in the last 4 years and that was a wedding where I said the words "HI aunt ......" and she said "oh hey there" and that was it. She is a very frightening person and was not always like this. She began abusing people middle aged. Not sure how her young adult children go about managing it or if she abuses them. They are all nice. She's divorced but divorced long ago in her 30's so it is not that.