Does my condition mean my vagina is loose?
I have been diagnosed with an overactive bladder. I have to wear pantyliners constantly due to leakage. Does this mean my vagina is loose? A lot of guys have told me I'm tight, others okay, and two that I'm loose. I'm starting to worry I might be loose and the ones saying I'm tight were feeding my ego. I suppose I'm obsessed with being right cause I was gang raped at the age of 14. I can't afford vaginal rejuvenation. I used kegel balls for a whole year and even after that was told I'm loose. I want to try a neurotransmitter thingy for pelvic floor exercises that I read about. On that note anyone know if they really work? They're kinda pricey and can possibly cause muscle tearing and skin irritation but I'm assuming that is if not used properly. Please help!
Tight not right
Oh yeah I'm looking forward to my pap smear next week and hope my ongyn can tell me so I can finally know the truth.