Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 2 months ago

What can an ex-BF do for his ex-GF(now best friend)knowing that her husband is upset n tensed after finding out that she is not a virgin?

and also slept with this best friend and other partners and thus feels awkward to face him...as the husband was a virgin and self controlled person and also he did'nt know about his wife's sexual relation with the Ex-BF(now best friend). Is there something that he can do for his friend and her husband to solve this situation, and can he make the husband understand that he does'nt have to feel awkward to face him after finding the truth? Or should he simply sit and enjoy the situation and watch his ex-gf(now best friend's) marriage getting destroyed for his past sexual relations and present friendly relations with her?

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  • 2 months ago

    You should know the answer to that (and the so many other questions you keep posting about this - from your side, from the "best friend's" side, etc.) since you have been in that situation (supposedly) for a long time now, and have had heaps of answers telling you what to do.

    Can't live with it, and her past? Divorce her - for both your sakes.

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  • RP
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    You may not be a positive influence for her marriage, but it is unlikely you can destroy it. She's the one, along with her spouse, that will make such a decision. If you cannot maintain a relationship without it being toxic, then the best thing to do would be to end it.

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  • 2 months ago

    You can disappear and allow them to navigate through their marriage without your interference, and encourage her to discontinue contact too.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    This is not your problem, and trying to solve it is being "enmeshed" which is psychologically healthy.

    Stay out of it.

    Do NOT take pleasure in other people's pain. That is sadistic.

    Some "best friend" YOU are. Huh.

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  • blank
    Lv 6
    2 months ago

    Best thing you can do is stay the blank out of it, unless asked to get involved.

    Leave her the blank alone and move on with your life.

    Somehow I think YOU are the cause of her current trauma and marital woes - seeing how you seem punkishly smug in your last sentence.

    Some friend you are.   Her hubby deserves to have some ball bat free time with your numbskull. 

    • 2 months agoReport

      Leaving blank now would mean that he is selfish enough to cause problem in her marriage and now suddenly move away leaving her and her husband to face 

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