I want to have sex with a woman and I want my husband to watch but not touch. How do I ask/tell him?

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Watch some lesbian porn with him to gauge his response.

    Act really interested in it so he gets the point.

    My wife often mentioned it too but the situation never arose so it never happened.

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  • 1 month ago

    I like your idea ;) I say go for it. I am Ashley btw :) 

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  • Hope!
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    and this is the beginning of the end of your marriage

    • Hope!
      Lv 7
      1 month agoReport

       consider the consequences - your husband might end up liking her better, you might want to end it after awhile, but the woman doesn't want to - she might want revenge for having been used. My point is, you have no idea where this road will lead, but it will certainly not be like your fantasy.. 

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  • RP
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Just ask and see how he responds.

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  • Tj
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    He may ask for a divorce or want to join in

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Surely you two talk about your sexual fantasies even if just as part of foreplay. So you'd find a way to mention this one then gauge his reaction to it. Of course this is something you'd both have to be into or else it would undermine the marriage.

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  • 1 month ago

    dont be greedy, let him join in

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  • kristy
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    Just tell him how much it would turn you on. He will probably agree to it. And you can tie his arms to the arm rests of a chair so he won’t be able to do any touching.

    • Ash1 month agoReport

      I love how you think :) 

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  • Ana
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    Your marriage will end in divorce if you even SUGGEST such a thing!!

    If you want to cheat then you must allow your husband to cheat too. Dirty little unfair b*tch

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  • 1 month ago

    Well I guess that he won't be pleased that you turned a lesbian. He will divorce you 

    • Ash1 month agoReport

      and what's wrong with that ;) 

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