Is this cheating?
I am in an exclusive relationship. He has some female friends. Some of them are married. One of the married friends texted him about movies while we were together on Saturday. This is a long thread with a lot exchanges. I am uncomfortable. Should I confront him?
- 1 month ago
It gets exhausting, policing the actions of our mates. Spending way too much time on what he is doing, his behaviors etc...put that time and energy into you and your life. Enjoy his company when you are together. I used to have really long claws, now they are the size of a baby kitty and I am much happier. Took some time, but life really is short. Good luck.
- ☼ GƖơώ ✞ Ѡɪηǥs ☼Lv 71 month ago
You truly need a detour, my friend. Anymore of this will only cause you more pain. "Seek and ye shall find."
Pardon me if this is offensive to you. Many words in the bible ring so true to me.
I am all that is Spiritual - without religion.
All I can say is "Listen" and follow your heart. This never fails! :DSource(s): Life is so Good!
- 1 month ago
just conversation, not cheating, if you make a thing about it you will be seen as selfish
- geetarman56Lv 71 month ago
No, not cheating. Some women get carried away texting, talking, etc. Some like to get an input from a guy at times to get their viewpoint and it can at times get pretty involved time-wise. Unless there's a definite thing in their conversations you can point to that gives an inkling there's cheating going on, leave it be.
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- 1 month ago
No, he's just trying to simp.
- Anonymous1 month ago
Yes, you should talk to him. I don't know if he's cheating but as men go the answer is most likely, yes.
- FoofaLv 71 month ago
Texting about movies is hardly cheating. If this is how low you've set the bar for infidelity I don't see this relationship lasting.
- Ace ShortyLv 71 month ago
Is he in this exclusive relationship with you? It would depend on how long the texting took place for me to be upset about it. Cheating? NO. Even if she mentioned anything about any good sex scenes being in the movie
- RickLv 71 month ago
I'm guessing it's not cheating or about cheating, but I don't know all the details. Instead of confronting him, which will lead to a fight, tell him how you feel and why.
- myfavouritelucyLv 71 month ago
Do the same back.... see how he reacts..... pretend to be in a long long text conversation with a man........ I bet he would find it uncomfortable and actually disrespectful and unkind. Then ask him why he considers it to be ok for him to do it to you..... It may not be cheating, but it's thoughtless, rude and shows considerable disrespect for the other person, which is actually as bad as cheating.