Shooting pains during sex?
I’m posting on this anonymously because I’m too embarrassed to go to the doctors and explain this (I’m not a troll either) the pain I have is really affecting my sex life, every time I have sex I have to stop every so often because the pain gets too much. The deeper a guy goes the sorer it gets and he can tell and starts to worry he’s doing something wrong. It feels like shooting pains up my womb and abdomen. I used to like going on top because the pain wasn’t as bad but last night I felt so sick and had to stop. I just don’t know what I can do to ease the pain or if there could be some medical condition underlying that I should get checked out as I really don’t get much pleasure at all now. Anyone got any suggestions as to what I should do to help the pain or what it could be? Thanks
- TavyLv 78 months agoFavourite answer
He is hitting your cervix so you need to change your position. Put a pillow under your hips to raise your bottom. This tilts the womb backwards. Some men think they are digging a hole so push their penis in upto the shaft. If your vagina is shorter than his penis then it will hurt.
Not your fault, he needs to be more careful.
- SheilaKLv 48 months ago
Maybe because you are not married to a man who respects you.
- PatriciaLv 78 months ago
Not sure why you're embarrassed to go to a doctor. Gynecologists deal with female issues every day. It's their job to help.
- D_21Lv 58 months ago
I would suggest seeing a gynecologist or two first to rule out any underlying medical condition. Cause really it does sound like there might be one. Actually, the more I consider it ....sounds a little like endometriosis. I was intitially contemplating fibroids, but I think what you describe is more indicative of endo.
That's the only thing I can think of, but I didn't do eight years of pre-med, med school, and practicum. Ask a doctor. Go to a female gyno. Tell them about the pain during sex.
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- Joe_dLv 78 months ago
How long is the guy's penis?? Mine is a small 4 inches long and it has never caused any pain. If anything I've actually had a couple of women wish mine was longer!
- TulipLv 78 months ago
Obviously you need to call the doc.
- KangarooLv 78 months ago
You're right, something is wrong so you need to see your GP.
Nothing to be embarrassed about.