Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 9 months ago

Why do I have a love/hate relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years?

Im a woman who loves and needs her space & my bf doesn't seem to understand this. He calls me 24-7 and he wants to see me everyday, all day. I've talked to him but it doesn't work, on both ends. When I ask him for space I'll usually end up missing him after an hour or two then I want to talk to him again. Its like I'm confused. I want him around, then I don't. Its stressing me out and I don't know how to handle it.

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  • 9 months ago

    It's highly disastrous relationship to be in. It's in a relationship that is so needy. That's not right, because it is not giving space to concentrate on work and put too much emphasis on idle talk 24/7 about one freaking relationship. It's not healthy.

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  • 9 months ago

    We have no idea why. We don't know either of you. Consider a therapist.

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  • Ana
    Lv 6
    9 months ago

    You want a mix of having him around, and some “me time”.

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  • 9 months ago

    You gotta ask yourself:  Why do I want him around?

    And then ask yourself:  Why do I not want him around?

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  • Athena
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    WHY is he still just a BF after 4 years?

    Good grief girl, how long are you going to pad this thing out? If you need your space then move on and give the guy a chance to find the girl he wants.

    Stop using him as your BF just to tell your friends you have one.

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  • lala
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    You are dependent in love

    and your bf is very controlling and abusive

    Get out this sh;;i;;;tt or your self esteem will go down farther

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