Hey, I have Asperger s and have trouble connecting with people and getting past "hey...doing good" with people. Is this normal?
- FoofaLv 78 months ago
Yes, social difficulties are the major hallmark of most spectrum disorders. You can improve this with cognitive behavioral therapy.
- mokrieLv 78 months ago
Yes it is normal but it doesn't HAVE to be. Most people on earth want to talk about themselves so if you want to be the person they think is a great conversationalist just ask them questions. Let them talk --listen to what they say and use it to ask another question. Every once in a while toss out a positive remark, like "that's great" or "that's cause your smart". The more you do it the better you will get at it and in a year you'll be able to talk to anyone for a long time.
- ez2tock2Lv 78 months ago
INEXPERIENCE is Very Normal.
No one is born a professional. It takes PRACTICE to get comfortable and even if you are INSECURE, to others you look Confident and Smooth.
Practice is about FAILING, until You Get Better.
DO NOT be afraid to Practice.
Practice is just taking BABY STEPS, until it becomes Who You Are.
Anyone who Rejects you is just PRACTICE.
Anyone who Engages you is PROGRESS.