GUYS, should I message him/would it be weird?

so, i met this guy a couple of years ago on omegle haha...we both thought each other was attractive, and ended up exchanging snapchats. we live on other ends of the world basically. i think we talked for maybe a day after but then stopped. we still to this day haven't deleted each other but don't say anything - just watch the other's story every now and then. i know this sounds stupid but im really attracted to him and a part of me wants to get to know him (he is clearly a normal guy, not dodgy in any way) but i feel like it might be weird to message him out of the blue? what would i even say? what are people's opinions on there any point or should i just leave it? do you think there is a reason he hasnt deleted me yet? idk maybe im overthinking lol


my main concern is coming across as weird/creepy. i know that its creepy for guys to message girls out of the blue but liek is it okay in this context? hah

3 Answers

  • Anonymous
    9 months ago

    I do think you are overthinking... I do usually write people out of the blue to see how they have been. and I also love getting messages from people I haven't talked to for years.

    There is nothing to loose. It might just end up as a friendly conversation, the worse thing that can happen is he won't reply, but well at least you had tried.

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  • Hannah
    Lv 6
    9 months ago

    Message him. Why not? Afterwards decide if he should be forgotten and deleted or not.

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  • LP7
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    Message him,got nothing to lose.Keep in mind the distance if you want to take things further

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