Should I have a child?

I have always wanted a child, and still want to have children. I recently got married. And I asked y wife about it. But she said she doesn't want to have any children because she doesn't want to go through the nine months of pain. She said she'll do it if I really want one so bad, but she'd prefer... show more I have always wanted a child, and still want to have children. I recently got married. And I asked y wife about it. But she said she doesn't want to have any children because she doesn't want to go through the nine months of pain. She said she'll do it if I really want one so bad, but she'd prefer not to have any. What do you think I should do?
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