Is it normal to fantasize about molestation after it happened as a child?
- OnlookerLv 75 months agoFavorite Answer
Sometimes. One problem with molestation is that sometimes the child feels s/he is a willing participant, not someone who was forced into something. But, of course, the problem with molesting a child even if the child is "willing" is the fact that the child even as an adult will have trouble processing it, with feelings of guilt, shame, confusion, and so on, as may be the case with you. The best way to work through these events is with a therapist, who can help the adult make sense of their conflicting feelings.
- LoganLv 55 months ago
Yeah, it's your brain trying to work through the trauma. Possibly trying to normalise it which isn't so great but it's your brain trying to cope.
- 5 months ago
mrs garnett has a crush on her