Is love really this complicated?
But here's the problem, I have another friend, let's call Caleb, who I enjoy talking to for hours on end and every day. Caleb revealed to me that he loves me and that he will do anything to get me as a wife. He is a real great guy and a sweet friend, but I don't have any romantic feeling for him like I do for James.
I feel like if I can't marry James, I will marry no one, but Caleb is a real great friend, should I marry Caleb even though I'm not romantically in love with him?
I love talking to Caleb and we talk every day, and I enjoy every second of it, but I don't love Caleb enough to be my future husband.
I don't talk to James as often because I don't want to be a nuisance to him and want to give him space, but I do love every second I get to talk with him and I love him so much that I would marry him in a heartbeat if he were to propose to me.
What should I do? Should I marry Caleb even though I don't love him? Is it possible to force yourself to love someone?