I lost my brother two years ago suddenly. He was only 28. Why do I feel like if I had been a better sister,he'd still be here?

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  • Tepee
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    It's wrong to condemn yourself since it's too late to do anything about it. Your task ahead is to be the nicest person you can be to everyone.

  • 1 year ago

    cause you want him still here

  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 year ago

    Because you're grappling to make sense of something none of us can really understand. Same situation here more or less and I regret not working harder to forge a closer relationship with my deceased sibling. But I'm compensating by building tighter ties with my remaining family members so I never have to have this feeling again. You can't undo what's already done but you work toward having no regrets the next time you lose someone close to you.

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    How did you lose your brother?

    I feel bad for asking.... I wouldn't blame myself if I were you. The coulda, woulda, shoulda thoughts never help. I am sorry for your loss.

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