Yes, this question is very relevant. Here's the thing. People, especially boys and men, obsess over females and desire them a lot. This is because they see them as some kind of very valuable piece of treasure or glittering jewelry. The fact is females are just regular humans like everyone else, they eat, poop, pee, vomit, sneeze and do all other dirty things males do. There's really nothing special about them that warrants any obsessing. To all the young males out there, you are better than them. Don't let them put you down because you couldn't get a date with them or because you couldn't get a reply. They don't deserve you. There's a reason why it's men who've done most of the developing, inventing, exploring, etc, in the world, which you should know by now. Work on yourself and start improving your being. All the great men in the world throughout history were single men who went out to explore the world. They couldn't have done it had they spent time on obsessing over females.