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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 9 months ago

Son is dating a girl who’s dad is a career criminal. Family are criminals. What do I do?

There is something that was is about this girl. It was a feeling. I did a search and found out that her dad has been arrested for- beating his wife, driving while intoxicated many times, evading arrest, theft, hot checks AND manslaughter... this man has a criminal record as long as his arm. His brother( my son’s gf uncle) has been arrested for rape. He brutally raped a 25 year old woman. Went to prison for it. This girl is very close to these people. She doesn’t know that I know. My son doesn’t know that I know. He’s been seeing her just a couple of weeks. What do I do??

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  • 9 months ago

    Can't judge the girl on what her father or brother did. See how she really acts first.

    • Anna
      Lv 5
      9 months agoReport

      Her uncle not brother. But I agree with you.

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  • GEEGEE
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    If they've only been dating a few weeks, I'd be inclined to wait and see how the relationship progresses. If it even moves forward.

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  • 9 months ago

    Just leave it be. Did she do these things? Just because she has family that are criminals doesn't mean she is. She had no choice who she was born into. They have only been dating 2 weeks so it probably won't turn into anything serious anyway.

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  • Alan H
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    Unless it appears to be+getting serious, do nothing.

    Then gently warn him

    She is not her family

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    9 months ago

    If this "relationship" is only two weeks old chances are it'll dissolve itself eventually anyway.

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  • 9 months ago

    Show your son what you have seen

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  • 9 months ago

    Poor girl, growing up in such an atmosphere. I hope your son can influence her with great values.

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    • Anna
      Lv 5
      9 months agoReport

      Poncho her dad and uncle are pieces of garbage bht she is her own person. My boyfriend was very close to his late grandfather who was racist (and Hungarian). My boyfriend is NOT racist. So not fair to automatically judge someone for their family.

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  • Anonymous
    9 months ago

    You don't do anything. If you try to intervene in your son's business, that'll drive the two together even more.

    The woman's family may be criminals, but that doesn't make her one. Think about that.

  • Anonymous
    9 months ago

    Son18+? Move far away don’t tell him new address give him ph# to contact you.

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  • Anonymous
    9 months ago

    break his front teeth, it will make him popular in jail

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