19 years and still living at home?

Question

I am an female being abused psychologically by mother. She has been abusive all my life here has been too much to explain that has gone on in my family. Is there any hotlines can call for this? I am from the United States.

Answer 1

you could go stay in a shelter and they will help you out

Answer 2

There are many hot lines. But what are they gonna do? Make your mom a better person? At 19 you are an adult. Move out. Or stay there and suffer. Pick one.

Answer 3

No, make the best of it.
All families are different, but it's worse outside.
Take it as a learning experience.

Answer 4

even if you aren't suicidal, you can call their hotline. Call 1-800-273-8255.

maybe consider joining the military. if you have a high school degree, no criminal history or medical issues, you should be qualified to enlist, but you still need to pass the ASVAB test (basic high school knowledge), and be relatively in shape. they have hundreds of jobs that aren't all combat or infantry related, and plenty can easily translate back into the civilian world. it's only four years long, though some jobs require six, and you get paid training along with it.

do some research, then contact a recruiter for the next steps. if you can't physically go to a recruiter, often times they will come to you if you are seriously interested.

Answer 5

19 year olds are considered capable of walking out and separating themselves from the parent, CPS can't do anything for you.

Answer 6

u should tell CPS about this

Answer 7

I would venture to say you have no skills to go to work and would not be able to take care of yourself otherwise you'd be gone. Not your fault it is the parents job to teach there kids to take care of themselves. Military is best bet like Kyle said that would make you independent. You could rope some guy and move in with him until it goes south. You could realize your situation and get out in the world bust *** and make things happen for you. The only thing free in life is misery everything else cost.

Answer 8

that's okay you're in the same boat as a lot of people

Answer 9

Get counseling if you are this consumed with mother hatred

Answer 10

Please contact a social worker at a hospital

And please dismiss if they say “ oh you’re just

Hearing and seeing things”, if they advise you

Take medicine, take it and advise the

Doctor to store the label in the fridge,

please see a patient advocate

To iron out any conflicts in the family thanks.

Thanks

Very Best Wishes for a happier today thanks

Very Best Wishes

Mars

Source:) General knowledge and Ethics