not sure about your age but there was a time when old movies often made women appear more attractive and more lady-like by having the woman, faint, or pass-out in a swooning kindda way, and the strong and handsome man would sweep her off her feet, and carry her off to the couch or a nearby bed. this gesture of a woman turning suddenly into a sleeping beauty was something not so strange to people as you think. the concern is with changing times, women are not interested in being weak, helpless and collapsing in order to be an attractive and desirable women. remembering that there are so many other ways to present yourself as brave and strong, and the one you admire seen as able-bodied, bright eyed, and beautiful through the gift of good health. besides anyone you desire to be intimate with/love should be able to give you the gift of star gazing at you with their eyes wide open. you deserve to have a woman's dreamy eyes smiling back at you. why? because then you may see what it is to be seen in your highest place of honor. most important, don't spend your life in hiding, because shut eyes, can work like shut doors too.