Is it okay if my girlfriend likes to beat me up as a joke, but kind of in a affectionate way or should I take it seriously?
If she wants sex but I say no she'll wrestle me and hold me down until I eventually give in (I could easily push her off if I really wanted). She was a high school wrestler so If i'm not careful she can wrestle me in to positions I can't get out of when she's annoyed until I apologize
If I do something in the house she pulls me by my hair to show me. She punches me in the stomach and a couple times hard enough to make me keel over which makes her really proud, but I'm fine.
Maybe it sounds bad but we have a really joking relationships. We're never actually angry at each other. I can be pretty mean to her sometimes in joking things I say, but it's never serious. She's Mexican and no racism, but I feel like for some of them somewhat violent women are kind of normal. I've seen like where the women are genuinely angry and that's a bit scary, but because my girlfriend is never truly angry, just annoyed it doesn't seem the same. People are shocked by how aggressively she hits me though.