Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 year ago

What does a girl mean when she says she needs a rain check?

At first I thought it meant she wasnt interested, but because she had a boyfriend I mentioned we should keep it platonic, but when she cancelled and said rain check I just said I understand, and left her alone. She texted me a week later saying she hasnt seen me in a while, but when I respond she ignores me. I am so confused with this one but I'm guessing it more than likely has to do with her boyfriend.

3 Answers

  • 1 year ago

    Wrong question; don't ask what "a girl" means when she says that, because all girls are different. Just ask what THIS girl means when she says that. A question that only YOU can answer, because we don't know her in the slightest.

  • Z
    Lv 5
    1 year ago

    When you go after a girl who already has a boyfriend, this is what you usually get.

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Simple: She is stringing you along. You're her "backup" male for when she is not seeing her "boyfriend" or when she is having problems with him.

    Accept this role and be used, or end the relationship.

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