Better to learn the behaviours that attract women. Contrary to popular belief relationships don’t just happen. You, as the guy in particular, have to make them happen. Either you talk to girls in your social circle (this is a very limited approach) or you enter the world of “cold approach pickup.” Basically you walk up and start interacting with girls you find attractive. You mess around in a way that amuses yourself, you make strong, unabashed eye contact, you make fun of and tease her about her behaviours and quirks, you find out about her by asking questions, you show her you are not hesitant and shy about what you are doing or to occupy her space and time, you sexualize the conversation, and you move her to a place sex can happen once you sense it’s on. These behaviours attract women almost regardless of the mans appearance adopt them, and if you begin to force yourself to approach women you like and focus on self-amusement and sexual tension you will get many girls.