Do you think the saying “once a cheater, always a cheater” is true?

I recently found out that my husband of 4 years cheated on me. He swears it was a one time thing and he will never do it again. I don’t want to give up on our marriage but I don’t know if I can ever trust him again. We just had our first child 7 months ago and he claims I don’t give him enough attention. Can people... show more I recently found out that my husband of 4 years cheated on me. He swears it was a one time thing and he will never do it again. I don’t want to give up on our marriage but I don’t know if I can ever trust him again. We just had our first child 7 months ago and he claims I don’t give him enough attention. Can people change or will he always be a cheater?
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