I am not widowed, my husband is still alive but some years ago he cheated (not just once) and I decided to leave. He's still my husband so he's, obviously, not interested in marrying either of the others but, no, I am not happy about what he did but I am extremely happy now living alone. I have everything I want. I live very modestly with little money (as he gives me NONE) but have never had expensive tastes in clothes, possessions or even food. I make ends meet but couldn't afford an expensive holiday or anything like that.
What I remember happily is our courtship, engagement, wedding and the early days but after 12 years he was unfaithful but I find it best to not dwell on that too much because my own conscience is clear, all the family know he's the one at fault and people who used to snub me, because they thought I was the adulterer, now they know the truth also. He lives in fantasyland thinking that others don't know what he's done and is still doing. It's truly sad that he thinks no-one knows.