Anonymous
Anonymous asked in SportsMartial Arts · 1 year ago

“It's not like ladylike to fight. Get yourself a husband who will look after you my dear” I want to kill whoever said this, why do people?

think this is okay? They think it’s okay to tell me not to do martial arts because “ladies shouldn’t fight” and that “husbands should protect you” what kind of sick world are these people living in

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  • Jea
    Lv 7
    1 year ago
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    As a female martial art instructor of over 40 years, I can advise you to disregard such a foolish person. Nobody who knows anything about martial art thinks it is about fighting. You carry on, I am a highly regraded and sought after instructor, and nobody disrespects my feminine figure, or my petite size. Keep your own council, and do what drives you. You can help many the way you are headed. Keep up the good work.

  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    Try jiu jitsu. I'm cold at it and it only took me 6 months to get good enough to best black belts. If you study hard you'll be raw

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    I actually highly recommend married women with menopause take martial arts.

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    • DKG
      Lv 6
      1 year agoReport

      They should at least do exercise, and martial arts are very mindful exercise.

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    It's not like ladylike to fight. Get yourself a husband who will look after you, my dear.

    You should also consider getting a dog trained in BJJ & Krav Maga.

    Edit to your comment: No, thank you but maybe you should consider that trolling is for teens.

    Edit 2: Yes you are d-lips.

    • 1 year agoReport

      Don’t know who d lips is hun

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  • 1 year ago

    Martial arts are fine, but "fighting" in general is rarely necessary and rarely is a good solution. Live your life the way it makes you happy and don't pay attention to social expectations.

    • 1 year agoReport

      You clearly don’t live in a city full of morons who get drunk and start fights, a lot of stabbings around too.

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    And here's what I say. Your first line of defense is always yourself.

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    I've never been told that. Do you live in Alabama or Afghanistan or something?

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    • Lv 6
      1 year agoReport

      Well then it was probably a troll just trying to upset you.

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    I don't know who you are, but you have one of my accounts blocked, so I am approximately 90% sure this is a trolling attempt.

  • 1 year ago

    I absolutely agree with you a lady should be able to defend themselves because there a lot of sick people out in the world.

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  • Anonymous
    1 year ago

    What’s the difference between you and a man?

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