What's frustrating for me is that men seem to see me as more of an exotic object than a human being. Once they learn I am 1/2 Filipino, 1/2 white they become curious about my origins and say stuff like "Well your parents created a beautiful daughter" and etc. There is nothing wrong with this ofc and I do thank them for the compliments but then this is all they basically are interested in. I feel as if I become this cute little thing on their arm, a trophy they can show off to others. Few seem interested in who I am, what I like to do, my goals and ambitions in life. I have guys approach me telling me they find me beautiful but then it seems I immediately owe them a romp in the bed for this compliment..they never seem interested in me personality-wise, which is why I always say no and then walk away with my head held high. It's why I've been a lot happier remaining single, for the time being. People in general are shallow and more about instant gratification than human feeling.