Is the romantic type of love between a man and woman actually special?
So when a woman has sex with her boyfriend or husband, she is most likely very uncomfortable during the whole experience. So that's a reason why romantic love between a man and woman is not special at all.
Also a reason why many women are comfortable getting naked and changing their clothes right in front of their platonic female (and male) friends (and vise visa) is because they are comfortable being naked around them and they are comfortable with them being naked around them since they don't see them as anything sexual, it's also another reason why they are have no problem sleeping in the same bed as them.
Also a woman getting naked and changing her clothes right in front of a man and sleeping in the same bed as him is a very friend-zoney thing for a woman to do to a man since that means she doesn't see him as anything sexual at all.
So I think platonic love is a lot more better than romantic love is because of those reasons.