Shes right! Life isnt cheap, bills have to be paid, she doesnt want to carry you and neither would I. You need to man up, get your *** out there and get a real job. Shes 100% right. My mom used to do that to me and it was the best thing she did for me. I think youre being whinny and wussy too. You sound like a mammas boy. If you cant handle her send her to me, I'll pay all the bills and she'll only need to cook, clean and receive gifts, I'll cook too and she'll gladly wait on me hand and foot. If you cant take care of your woman, move aside and let her find a real man that knows how to make her feel secure. If she has 1 kid with you she doesnt want to end up 2 kids and I dont blame her. She sounds like my kind of woman, a go getter. When you F' it up send her to me, I know what to do. Its also about time. Life waits for no one. You have to move at lifes pace, life will not slow down to accommodate you. If you want to be a mammas boy, move back in with mamma, otherwise man-up!