You must admit that you made an upfront mistake by going ahead of living with a guy after dating him for just 8 Sundays. So, you now realize that you moved too quickly before getting to know him. Now that you know him, you do not like your life with him. This is something you could have easily figured out if you gave the relationship some time and saw the red flags the first 8 weeks of your romance.
He is a manipulating alcoholic. He was five months ago and he will be five months from now.
When he is at work, pack up your stuff and just leave. Really. There is no other way to get out of this one because he has all the signs of being abusive and trust me, he will not let you go peacefully.
Forgive yourself for making a mistake. Forgive yourself for acting in haste. Forgive yourself for letting yourself down and not following your instincts. It is time to end this ridiculous relationship and just get out while you still can. Nothing good is going to become of this and you know it.
No, there is no hope for a girl who prematurely moves in with a guy who, as you say:
*Was pressured into moving in with him
*Who uses your money for rent
*Who uses you to buy groceries
*Who drives your car
*Who you do all the cooking for
*Who you do all the cleaning
*Who picks fights every day over petty things
*Who manipulates you
*Who blames you for everything
*Who upsets you to the point of missing work
*Who is an alcoholic
*Who is in massive debt
*Who acts like a child
*Who makes you feel you are in a living nightmare
*Who wants to use your credit card for DISNEY
NOW< please read the above while pretending someone told you four months ago that this would be your life with your boyfriend. Would you have signed up to be this guy's girlfriend back then? Of course not. So, why the hell should you be his girlfriend right now? If you stay with him, you are a complete and total fool who deserves this living nightmare. And, do not tell me you have no where to go. You must have friends, perhaps siblings and parents, aunts and uncles or grandparents, yes??? YOU NEED HELP. Get the flock out of there!!