Ex husband avoids contact since he found a new wife?

We divorced but stayed friends. We used to meet often while he was single and he even met my new husband many times. But then he found a new girlfriend (whom he married after a year of dating) and a couple of month into a relationship started avoiding to see me. He kept on saying that it has nothing to do with her,... show more We divorced but stayed friends. We used to meet often while he was single and he even met my new husband many times. But then he found a new girlfriend (whom he married after a year of dating) and a couple of month into a relationship started avoiding to see me. He kept on saying that it has nothing to do with her, that she is very understanding and has no problem with him seeing me and my husband, but that he is busy. And now they are even moving to another city. I just can't understand why would he suddenly come up with all possible excuses as to not meet with us? p.s They are both over 40, so i can't imagine that the reason is jealousy, thought not sure.
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