OK, let's look at the facts and then I have some questions. You asked him to stay with you while your parents were out of the country. Obviously you cared about him and trusted him because it seems you didn't do this just to sleep with him as you say he had never seen you naked. You were very sick and he did everything you needed done to take care of you. He gave you meds and cooked for you. The second day, you were worse and you are upset he undressed you. From what you have said he didn't do anything to molest you in any way. YOU put him in the position of taking care of you. IF you were in a hospital and a nurse had done the same thing, would you be this upset? He sounds like a good guy. How old are y'all? How long have you been dating? You claim you were in love with him and it's now months later and you are still with him but this still bothers you. Has he seen you naked since? If you have been together this long and he hasn't seen you naked other than the time he undressed you and he is still with you, doesn't that tell you something? Sounds like you were planning to be with him long term. Would he have seen you naked eventually? If he had undressed you and molested you in some way, I could see the loss of trust. I feel something else is going on here. Are you ashamed of your body in some way? Have you been molested in the past? To be honest, I don't see what he did that was so wrong. He obviously cared enough to take care of you. Are you sure there isn't something else that you are taking out on him? Bottom line, if you can't get over it, the relationship won't last. But if the real issue is something that has nothing to do with him, how is blaming him or taking your issues out on him gonna help anything? I don't see where this was a big deal, but I'm older. I've taken care of girlfriends and a wife to the degree of having to help them on/off the toilet and wiping front and back for them because they couldn't do it because of illness or surgery. I did it because they needed me and because I loved them. If they had been sick with a fever and I saw they were uncomfortable, I'd have done the same thing he did. It shows me he was paying attention to you and taking care of your needs without having to be asked for everything. Most women would love for a guy to do that for them. Especially one they claimed to be in love with. I think you need to talk to someone about the real issue and be honest with him. If there is no other issue, and you can't get over it then be honest with him about that too. But the truth will be he did nothing wrong, it's you.