Does friends with benefits really work?
Me:Well, I really like you as a friend that's why I bought you a present for your birthday and I don't want sex to ruin it.
Him:Sex will only ruin it if you want something more that I'm not willing to give. Keep your expectations low and you won't be disappointed. That's what I do.
**I was the one who mentioned sex to him. I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. He never said anything to me about sex until I asked him. Before I ever asked him about having sex he had asked me to hangout.**