Married or living together - it makes no difference love, he is NOT free to be with you.
When we met he told me that he is the process of separating but is just trying to figure out what's best of their children - that's what they always say.... and a year later still NOTHING has happened I bet
I believed him - of course you did. Because you wanted too
We've been seeing each other for year and he still lives with her - of course he does. And he will be living with her for the foreseeable future
He only see me during his work hours, he hasn't spend a night with me - of course it he does.. because he gets his 'bit on the side' without having to explain evening absences from his partner
He claims that he would want to spend more time with me - claims are easily made and said. I could claim that if I won the lottery I would give you half... see easily said... the practice is somewhat different though
it's hard because his kids are very young and require all his attention - I know its probably hard with young kids, but there are PLENTY of men out there who leave unhappy relationships with young kids. Harsh as it may sound, he is there because he wants to be . If he was really unhappy he would get out
Lately I've been feeling bad about the situation I'm in - its not a healthy situation for you and it has NO future
I wonder if they are still intimate and it's constantly in back of mind...wondering if they are still together. - is he male and under 70? If so, they are still intimate . Of course he isnt' going to tell you that, but deep down you know they are
Did he lie to me? - why ? because he is telling you what you want to hear and what he needs to say to keep you on side.. think about it, if he told you the truth, would you have stuck around ? If he said, I am with my partner, I have no intention of leaving her, we are intimate regularly, blah, blah, blah
Why do I feel so bad = because you know its wrong . Because its not fair on you, on his kids on his partner. This guy is a lying, cheating scum bag and you can do far better than him... If he is happy to cheat on one partner, he would be happy to cheat on you.
Cut the ties, finish it, then block him / delete or whatever and move on with you life.. 6 months down the line you will wonder what you saw in this creep !