Porn is not about real people. It isn't about you not looking as good as they do. It has nothing to do with how attractive you are! They aren't real, he can think of anything he wants, he can call them filthy names or worship their nipples or whatever... Porn is something that is make believe with not real people. His porn addiction has NOTHING to do with how you look or dress or how much he's attracted to you. He's hooked on playing with himself (yes) while dreaming of a NOT REAL woman who will never actually breathe and eat and have opinions and be, in general, real. Porn is not real people and THAT is what so many find attractive about it. It's all about him all the time, baby. I'm sorry. Feeling bad about yourself for this is like hating yourself because you aren't a dolphin. Honest. His desire to play with himself while fantasizing about NOT real women is about him, not you. But if you aren't having sex several times a week, you might try upping the game. Cause he might like both. And you deserve to have a sex life with your husband if it's possible!