Every guy I hook up with is so rough with me?

Is this normal? I haven't dated a lot of guys but every guy I've hooked up with has been so rough with me from the first time. I'm quite petite and I like being submissive but my friend has said this isn't normal so it's got me thinking. I don't think I've ever had sex that isn't... show more Is this normal? I haven't dated a lot of guys but every guy I've hooked up with has been so rough with me from the first time.

I'm quite petite and I like being submissive but my friend has said this isn't normal so it's got me thinking. I don't think I've ever had sex that isn't rough. So he'll be spanking, choking, throwing me about and pinning me down roughly etc from the very first time...
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