If your "disputes" involve screaming, threats or violence, then you need to control yourself, man. Stop doing that. You are lucky she isn't calling the cops if its violence. And if you are screaming, still totally understandable she calls your mom. She needs to be safe.
If you are just disagreeing/arguing without actual yelling or violent talk or behavior or threats, and its just your standard run of the mill non-screaming, non-violent, non-scary argument, then no, she shouldn't be involving your mom in that.