Can guys tell if your a virgin?

I’m 23, I’ve had sex before marriage, first time I was 17. I’m worried that I’m kind of lose down there, one of my partners mentioned that he could tell that I’ve done it before, because virgins take time. I could just pretend to be a virgin by faking it, I could pretend to be scared. I don’t think I ever had a... show more I’m 23, I’ve had sex before marriage, first time I was 17. I’m worried that I’m kind of lose down there, one of my partners mentioned that he could tell that I’ve done it before, because virgins take time.
I could just pretend to be a virgin by faking it, I could pretend to be scared. I don’t think I ever had a hymen.
Can they tell?
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