I believe my life choices is causing a rift with my sister?

My sister chose to travel the world, drop out of education, spend, spend, spend, buy things and worry about how to pay for it later. Myself on the other hand, saved, saved, saved, worked 2 jobs, did without and studied hard amd worked my way up. Now as adults, i have a mortgage and good job. She has a low wage,... show more My sister chose to travel the world, drop out of education, spend, spend, spend, buy things and worry about how to pay for it later.
Myself on the other hand, saved, saved, saved, worked 2 jobs, did without and studied hard amd worked my way up.
Now as adults, i have a mortgage and good job.
She has a low wage, rents and debts.
She complains about me and how i don't do enough for the family, points out my flaws etc. It is really ruining my relationship with her and my family unity as a whole. What should i do?
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