You are preaching to the choir here. I have found the same to be true... don't forget those that lie about their finances or are stone junkies or alcoholics... still, I am trusting that there are still "a few good men out there" but we girls just have to learn how to start fishing from the right watering holes. After my last fiasco with "my user, boozer, and loser", I took up some evening community education courses and met some very interesting gentlemen that I have enjoyed friendships and casual dating with... oh, and I have learned how to discreeting do background checks... amazing the information you can find for free on the internet (i. e., marriages, divorces, criminal history, civil lawsuits, property searchs). It has really helped me to toss the "fish" back that aren't such a good catch. Good luck.