How to make my boyfriend's mom take our relationship seriously?

My boyfriend's mom doesn't take our relationship seriously. All she cares about is his school work and after-school work and never allows him to go out and socialize. He never has time to hang out with me because she's a tyrant and won't let him see me. It's greatly effecting our relationship and I don't know how to fix it. What should I do?

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  • 8 years ago

    I think you should give him a break for a while and see what happens from then onwards...why??? Mom can be really tricky to deal with especially when it comes to their sons. Worst if he is a mommy's boy. Life is too short to be trying to get the mother to take the relationship seriously.

    If your boyfriend really wants the relationship he will find a way to make it work...and if the mother see how he behaves about it...she will eventually cut you guys some slacks. Try to see things from his mom's point of view, she wants the best for her son and you maybe a distraction in her eyes. Also, your boyfriend probably cannot handle the relationship and his school work.It can be a ton of reasons, so back off for a while and don't stress yourself. If he is for you - no1 can stop it!!!

  • 8 years ago

    There isn't much you can do. He can't go against his mother for a relationship, even if he loves you or lusts you.

    I say let this relationship take its course. She's just a concerned mother who wants her child to do right and not become a drop out. It's not the fact that she doesn't take your relationship seriously, it's the fact that she wants him to do good in school.

    Maybe she doesn't feel your "right" for him. Ask him how she feels about you exactly. Or when you meet her, introduce yourself, and be kind.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Shut up and get your butt in the kitchen xD jkk i meant take your books and study stupid

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