Just want to share what I feel right now.?

I am aisha (24yrs old), had a good career as a finance officer in an international company somewhere in asia and a very simple woman while Miguel 27 years old, a good looking assistant manager in a hotel in Singapore. Our love started online where seldom you will meet true person who's willing to take a serious relationship. One day, I was really bored at home that I decided to surf online. I went in a chatroom but I didn't really chat. I surfed on different websites then after a few minutes there is this guy who messaged me and showed his face online. I was thinking who's this weird guy wearing a cap inside his room. And I started cracking jokes.. to him because he's really weird. I also showed my face but using small image. And he's so whatever that he said "can you make ur cam bigger", then I said who are you to command me like that. Then he said "i'm sorry" . Because of that my mood changed. Everything he says, I always contradict. But in the end of our conversation fell into place. We chatted a week and started missing each other. For me, (negative) he'll just come and go! He said he'll be here after a week and we will meet soon.I;ve waited for him a day before his flight to give my number so he can contact me as soon as he arrived here. I felt sad bcoz he didn't go online. One night, while I'm with my friend .. it was 11pm that I saw a new number in my phone. I got 4 miss call. I wonder who was that. Then I sms it. And in my surprised, it was him who was calling me an hour ago. I jumped and felt so happy. He's real! Yeah, a day after. We met. I saw him, oh my, he's really georgous and tall. While me, i'm small and and very haggard in my corporate attire. We met and he carried my bag. 2days we're together. And on the other day, we are also together. When we were together a lot women stares at him. And I started shrinking. The doubt starts, but eventually he told me that "i dont need to be afraid, for he truly loves me, and he will love me forever!" The doubt broke. After six months, I've decided to be with him in singapore after he proposed to me back in our country. In the next 2 months we're getting married here. And another in our country. I've realized, it really pays off to wait for the right one to come. =)

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    I met my husband online, I never thought I'd want to do that. He's from the USA and I'm from Canada.

    It took us years to really get to know each other, and after marriage we were getting to know each other on a whole different level. People always told me to spend lots of time with him and find out as much as I can, which I kind of laughed at - I figured I knew him well enough.

    I'm glad we waited because even with all that time, there were issues to resolve before we got married. I highly recomend marriage counseling, because they are experts and can draw your attention to a lot of things you may not think about otherwise.

    Just make sure you don't give up everything (leaving your job, country, etc.) unless you are sure. And if you are, congrats and good luck!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Congratulations! You're one of the few lucky women who found love with a normal great guy online. There are a lot of strange creepy people online and I personally would be afraid to take the chance and meet someone in person that I met online.

    But I have a friend who met her husband online and 7 years later they are still happily married. I guess I'm just not a risk taker.

    I hope you and your boyfriend have a wonderful marriage and are very happy.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well, good for you Aisha. I don't want to burst your bubble but be careful. Don't keep your hopes up. People change all the time. I hope he doesnt and keeps loving you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Good luck with that. Hope it's everything you imagine it to be.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Good luck I hope all goes well for you.

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