I'd take the blessing that you've come across... Not only do you have a baby but, you didn't have to end up married with a woman who is clearly not over her ex, and potentially a cheater. If she really wanted to be with you, something like her mom pushing her into her ex's arms 1 week after you guys break up during a 6 month pregnancy would have not had any effect on her. Not only that, she's marrying the ******... why isn't she marrying you instead... the father of her child? My advice is to quit while your ahead... move on and try your hardest to be a part of the baby's life. Oh, and a get a paternity test... as much as an asshole this makes me seem, it's possible shes hiding something due to the story she gave you about her mom. Sounds like lies. I know this because Ive kinda been through the same thing... she left me saying her parents didnt approve and made a whole story about it, and right afterwards shes hooked up with a dude who is obviously less suitable than me... you might love her but she can also be a liar. my two cents from personal experience.